“I Will Not Let You Win”

Remember those days when we couldn’t wait to be an adult? Well here we all are living the adult life and I’m wondering where the time has gone! Sometimes I wish things would slow down a bit. Everyone who knows me, knows that I always plan things at least 2 months ahead of time. The days and months are going by so quick. I’ve been thinking about life a lot. I’m someone who likes to have a plan and stick with it but that’s not how things work in life. It’s crazy how fast things can change. I would have never thought I’d be where I am today. I am happy with my job, myself, and life. I wouldn’t be the strong woman I am today without the help of many people. Thank you to the guys who lied and cheated on me. Thank you to the guys who always put me down and made me feel like I wasn’t good enough. Thank you to the people who used me. Thank you to the people who always put my goals and dreams down. Thank you to these people because you all are the reasons why I am a strong woman. You are the reason why I know how to choose who to keep in my life and who to trust wisely. I pushed myself everyday not only for my family and friends who have always supported me from the beginning. For the people who made me feel like I wasn’t worth, I will not let you win. Never let the negative people win. Always strive to do better and move forward, not backwards. We aren’t perfect and life can get rough trying to be a strong independent person. It’s okay to accept help from those you trust. It’s okay to scream at the top of your lungs. It’s okay to cry and let it all out but at the end of the day you have to pick yourself up and keep going. Life is physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausting but things will only get better if you use the negatives to get you to the positives. Trust me; everything will be okay. Love yourself and make time for the people who deserve it. Good luck to the man who can actually break down my walls and get me to make time for you. 😂

Know Your Worth

The older I get the more I realize what I really deserve in life. You should always be humble and kind but know when not to take shit from anyone. There’s always a time where you need to put your foot down or you’ll never be happy. Stop trying to please others and don’t let them step all over you. The right people will stay in your life and the wrong ones won’t last. Don’t chase after them. The hardest thing to do is watch someone you want in your life walk away but it will be worth it in the end. They don’t belong in your life for a reason. All you gotta do is better yourself everyday to make those people (friends/exes/family) wish they kept you close. I believe that if someone never gave you a chance in the first place then they don’t deserve you at all. Work on yourself. That’s when I started to see things fall into place. I must say that I am in a good place in life right now but that doesn’t mean I will stop there. I will continue to improve myself physically, emotionally, and mentally everyday. Don’t give up or give into any negativity. Positivity and confidence is the key. Know your worth!

Positive vibes only

Man, life has been crazy busy. I haven’t blogged since last year. I guess it’s kind of a good thing since time flies by so quick everyday. A lot has changed since I’ve last blogged. New job and new me. I’ve been blessed. I decided to blog today because a lot of people have been reaching out to me for advice. I’ve noticed that there’s a lot of depressed and discouraged people out there. I’ve been meeting a lot of people who just want things to happen right away with relationships, goals, jobs, and everything and when it doesn’t happen they just give up. That’s not how things work. It takes years and determination for people to make things happen. For the relationship part, I’ve noticed that when you try or look too hard the right person won’t fall into your life. You gotta let things fall into place and not force it. When you force it you might end up settling with the wrong person. Stop thinking about things like “I’m getting old.” I joke all the time about how I have 5 years to find that man so my grandpa can walk me down the aisle but I am really in no rush. Life is too short to force something. Go explore the world and try new things you’ve never done. Maybe the right person isn’t coming into your life yet because you haven’t found yourself yet. Live life and let things come together. “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line.” I’ve also talked to people who have everything in life but still feel like there’s something missing and aren’t happy. It’s crazy how life works. You can have money, a family, house, and a career but still be depressed. How do we fix this? I don’t know. All I know is that you never know what someone is going through so you always need to be humble and kind. If someone is reaching out to you please don’t push them away. Give them a boost. Motivate them to want to wake up the next day. You never know what could happen. This blog is to reach out to everyone in the world. I am here for you, I want to make a difference, and want to help. Please reach out to me if you ever feel like you need someone to listen to you. Spread the word and share. Positive vibes only.

Love,

Twerk Tam